The Alabaster Girl

Jeez I've read most of those. Personal favourites are David Deida's book which is great on understanding relationship dynamics; and Zan Perrion's book which is great in cultivating and perceiving depth in relationships.

Sounds like the right way to go! For further reading, look at: Models - Mark Manson No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover What also helped change mindsets to positive-by-default interactions with potential partners, I recommend The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. Very flowery book, but an enjoyable read and at worst a decent mode of mind to consider.